Men are uncomplicated creatures. Whether it's a simple white set-up with a sexy bow, or some cute polka dot pants, the underwear guaranteed to score big with them is that which suggests innocence and fun. For me, mismatching underwear says “yes, I'm hot enough not to conform to your fashion rules my friend.” The more it clashes the more I like it, and I'm not the only one it seems because on the beach the mismatched look has even extended to bikinis. It's getting more and more fashionable, especially with celebrities.
I know that men prefer mixed-up bras and panties that don't match because I've asked them. They've told me in confidence that mismatched underwear makes them focus their attention on the bra, panties and stockings one at a time, and they spend longer looking at each piece. That means their gaze is fixed on those important parts the underwear is designed to flaunt.
Often, underneath the apparent disorganization of hastily assembled underwear, there's a precise attention to detail at work. It takes much more intelligence to exploit the potentials of different colors, varied fabrics and clashing styles than it does with a matching, store-bought ensemble. Simply put, in the world of real-world sexuality, opposites attract, and that rule applies to bras and panties as much as it does to men and women.
Venus O’Hara is a fetish model, actress and writer from the UK who currently lives in Barcelona.
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